How to know you are in good company of people?
Have you ever been to a gathering, where everyone looked more important then you? Did you feel uplifted after or worthless? This post is about that, you and the world around you.
Remember, how did you feel first time you met someone and instantly clicked with the person. Recall how do you feel among your best friends.
People that are really strong, confident radiate welcoming acceptance. Since they are not "full of themselves", they don't see you as a threat to their ego. They are natural, warm, easy to talk to and approachable.
When you come to a group of people that are making you feel small is because of the huge barrier they put around themselves, to protect their mask. People that are insecure and unsure, usually put their best camouflage to look the opposite. They are most of the time energy vampires. They need energy of others to feel important.
Feeling less in themselves they need others to confirm their worth. To achieve this, they desperately want to show off and put others down. Sparkling attire, another layer of heavy make up, flattering words, fake smiles will make them feel important. To those that see only the mascarade, that will look stunning. To those that look deeper that will be boring and shallow.
This kind of beings are like the big balloons, afraid of someone's needle. They are feeding themselves on others thoughts of how important and successful they are.
More sensitive individuals after being around this kind often feel less worthy and drained.
Fear of being uncovered and naked for who they really are behind the mask, made them to build the wall. To climb up to reach up to them can exhaust you. This is not natural!
Every time you come to some group of people, there is a invisible comedy or drama going on. Those with the build up walls feel good around the same kind, while those that are "natural" feel restricted around them.
People that don't wear the mask are straight, approachable and simple. In their company, there is always another great thing to talk about. You feel like you just met a friend that you know from always. You feel inspired and accepted.
If you are surrounded by people that make you feel small and insignificant, rather be by yourself. Be aware that others are your mirrors too. We see in others what we are. Ask yourself, what it is that is making you feel small, are you afraid of your own light and power. Think about your strength, where it is.
Our deepest fear is not that we are inadequate.
People that are really strong, confident radiate welcoming acceptance. Since they are not "full of themselves", they don't see you as a threat to their ego. They are natural, warm, easy to talk to and approachable.
When you come to a group of people that are making you feel small is because of the huge barrier they put around themselves, to protect their mask. People that are insecure and unsure, usually put their best camouflage to look the opposite. They are most of the time energy vampires. They need energy of others to feel important.
Feeling less in themselves they need others to confirm their worth. To achieve this, they desperately want to show off and put others down. Sparkling attire, another layer of heavy make up, flattering words, fake smiles will make them feel important. To those that see only the mascarade, that will look stunning. To those that look deeper that will be boring and shallow.
This kind of beings are like the big balloons, afraid of someone's needle. They are feeding themselves on others thoughts of how important and successful they are.
More sensitive individuals after being around this kind often feel less worthy and drained.
Fear of being uncovered and naked for who they really are behind the mask, made them to build the wall. To climb up to reach up to them can exhaust you. This is not natural!
Every time you come to some group of people, there is a invisible comedy or drama going on. Those with the build up walls feel good around the same kind, while those that are "natural" feel restricted around them.
People that don't wear the mask are straight, approachable and simple. In their company, there is always another great thing to talk about. You feel like you just met a friend that you know from always. You feel inspired and accepted.
If you are surrounded by people that make you feel small and insignificant, rather be by yourself. Be aware that others are your mirrors too. We see in others what we are. Ask yourself, what it is that is making you feel small, are you afraid of your own light and power. Think about your strength, where it is.
Our deepest fear is not that we are inadequate.
Our deepest fear is that we are powerful beyond measure.
It is our light not our darkness that most frightens us.
We ask ourselves, who am I to be brilliant, gorgeous,
talented and fabulous?Actually, who are you not to be?
We are empowering each other by being engaged in a group or when we are united for the same cause. Where is your cause? Connect to the people and groups that are bringing the best in you for the World.
We are the World, and we grow and feel complete by giving something back, to make it better.
We ask ourselves, who am I to be brilliant, gorgeous,
talented and fabulous?Actually, who are you not to be?
We are empowering each other by being engaged in a group or when we are united for the same cause. Where is your cause? Connect to the people and groups that are bringing the best in you for the World.
We are the World, and we grow and feel complete by giving something back, to make it better.
Be and seek the ones that you want to become alike. You will know you are among the right people and place, when you feel good about yourself there. When you feel like at home, inspired for growth and free to express your ideas and being.
We always know inside of us, but the question is: how often do we listen this feeling or voice?
With love,
Julija
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