How can I forgive or why should I?
How many times people, places, family, circumstances, acts.. were responsible for our misery and we thought; why we should be the ones to forgive? What is there for us to forgive? Do we see we act victim here? Why, do you know you can do something about this since other side don't know what, how or want? Why should you? Well, for your own sake, peace of mind and health and if you are Christian that is what Jesus would like you to do ( or your healthy mind). You think it is worth it? Every one with at least little intelligence will put that angry and guilt demon aside, and act as a proper adult here! On a practical level, our lack of forgiveness is very much de-energizing and is making you low and tired. Here is how it works: If we haven’t “let go,” the anger or resentment we hold on to keeps us tied to those we don’t forgive. Our attention sets up a circuit of energy and, whether we are consciously aware of it or not, some of our energy is always flowing along